Hi my names Joel. Im human, ever since I was born. I dont know who you are I dont know why your reading this but I think you might be like me. I mean for starters were all pretty much human I get it if theres a little bit of somethin else in you that makes you special. That gives you heart and soul and makes you human. Next we all live on earth, maybe not mentally but physicaly we are all stuck here :-( So we can all share that. We are also important to each other in ways some people might not get exactly. Your words can make or break someone thats the innevitable truth. And if you think people on this sight dont know you or care about what you say or do, then my friend let me assure you you have been living a lie.
The real point of this blog I have put together is to talk about people who choose to bully on MAL. Dont say that they dont because ive seen it myself. Some of you guys are basicaly fighting an internet war. I have seen people on this site that I have researched who abused someone using their profile for so long the person got fed up and stopped responding. So then this particular abuser created a fake profile so that they would get a response and could continue to abuse this realy great person who did pretty much nothing on the site to deserve such verbal abuse. Then there are others who dont like people who are pretty popular and often write reviews and reccomendations on the site. They get annoyed with the fact that this person is super active and seems to be quite happy with life,anime, and manga. Some sugar cote it and make it sound less hater like but others go all out and fill up a persons page with random haterness. Still dont believe there are bullies on this site? Well I myself have nearly become a victim. Someone acted like a mega hater on a blog of mine and because of it I was a bit slow for producing my newest post being this. Dont let this discourage you because there are two simple ways to stop this.
One way that I have witnessed and used is killing with kindness. I know everybodys like kill people with and thats often said but you dont have to flat out like compliment and and love this person. No thats the worse thing you can do! You can throw in just a little bit of spicey comeback and then make the rest sound nice while holding your morals and pride. I will give you an example that is FAKE AND NEVER HAPPENED.
Pie5000 "You write crappy reviews you should stop!"
LoveDove234 " Thank you for commenting on my page, even if you had nothing nice to say. I value your opinions and I will try to make them better for you. You know its kinda funny though everyone is always saying good things about my reviews and how I should make more, But I guess not everyone likes everything. Thanks again"
Most of the time your attacker will stop and realise he or she cant get to you. It works for me.
The last way to stop some of the bullying on this amazing site is to not be a bully yourself. If your one of those people whose been sitting there thinking the whole time haha did she realy think I wasnt going to hate on her blog just because she made this about bullying im totaly going to go to the comments after this and talk about how stupid she is then you know what just stop. You are the exact person I have been talking about. STOP IT!
(Wedding Bells)
HOW DARE YOU ON A DAY LIKE TODAY RUIN WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF THEMSELVES IN SUCH A WAY! THE LOVE OF ANIME AND HAPPINESS IS WHAT BRINGS PEOPLE TO THIS LOVELY LITTLE SITE! YOU ARE MAKING PEOPLE NOT FEEL WELCOME AND FREE ON THIS SITE AND FOR THAT I CAN NEVER FORGIVE YOU!
I AM THE LOVE ANGEL!
I AM WEDDING PEACH!
AND I AM EXTREMELY ANGRY WITH YOU!
(arm raised wedding peach would be kicking your butt right now)
For those of you who have never seen the show wedding peach I just showed you up wedding peach style fool! It isnt right to treat people in such a way! DID YOU EVER STOP AND THINK THAT THE PERSON WHOSE FEELINGS YOU JUST CRUSHED HAD THOUGHT ABOUT KILLING THEMSELVES TODAY! DO YOU WANT THE LIFE OF AN INNOCENT ANIME OR MANGA LOVER ON YOUR HANDS! THINK ABOUT THAT THE NEXT TIME YOU DECIDE TO BREAK SOMEONE ON THIS SITE!
If you have been sitting here this whole time having not seen any bullying on any site im afraid your time may come. Theres nothing you can do to stop it and for that im sorry. But you can do what I and others have done and change this site for good. Stop the wars stop hating and watch anime.
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